New Years Eve is almost here (ah no way), which means everyone is making their list of resolutions.
Let’s look at that word for a minute. Resolution. According to Dictionary.com, a resolution is a formal expression of opinion or intention made, usuallyafter voting, by a formal organization, a legislature, a club,or other group. The majority of the time resolutions are solutions, people trying to fix things.
So when people make New Years Resolutions, they usually do with the idea in mind that they need to fix some quality about themselves. Maybe it’s to lose weight, or stop cursing. Maybe it’s to pick up a hobby, or to be more social.
We know that resolutions are made because we want to better ourselves, we want to change. The time that seems most appropriate is, of course, the start of the new year. And I get that. I want to change for the better too.
However, I think we as a society should change our approach to the resolutions. Everyone should stop viewing their resolutions as a way to “fix themselves.” Instead, think of your resolutions as “promises.”
We make promises to other people ALL THE TIME. (Whether we keep them or not, well that’s a different story). Why not make promises to ourselves? We’d be more driven to keep them, because no one wants to be disappointed in themselves.
I also suggest that we make one resolution at a time. Start off small. One promise per month. If you’re good at it, keep it up. Add more to your list of changes. See how much you can handle. You know, baby steps.
For example, my first promise for the new year is to drink water every day. Next month, I’ll add another promise.
I hope everyone has a Happy New Year!


