Because this summer I turned 21, and because I think it’s the last summer of semi-freedom before reality kicks in, I’ve been making as many attempts as possible to go out. Once a week is fine enough.
So I went out a few nights ago to drink a little and dance a lot. My first stop was McFadden’s Saloon, an Irish pub by Grand Central. It was roomy and lively, with music playing, people dancing and a sweet drink special.
The only problem: it was so LOUD. I think it must be a new trend for the nightlife scene because everywhere I’ve been outside of a club, I can’t hear anything. It’s a struggle to have a conversation with people I’m hanging out with, never mind someone I’ve just met. This is why I never make any friends while I’m out–I’m unable to hear them.
And I’m not exaggerating about the volume of music either. It’s probably as loud as a live concert. Booming bass in one ear, drunken sing-screaming in the other.
Due to this situation though, I have perfected my yes-I’m-listening-nod and my I-think-what-you-might’ve-said-was-meant-to-be-a-joke-so-I’ll-laugh. These gestures at least give the appearance that I’m being social. It’s either that or have to ask “What? Can you repeat that?”
My question is this: why do pubs have to play the music so loud? I’m positive people want to be able to hear what other have to say. Or is that the art of conversation has diminished so much? I can understand the volume at a dance club, but not in a casual drinking setting.
The next time I go out, I’m going to look for a low-key, inexpensive, lounge setting. Those seem pretty chill.
